Show Off Leads To False Perceptions And Connections
Though you may want to impress someone by showing off something very popular or precious, in Psychology ‘like attracts like’ so if you are showing off and pretending something, only those people will be attracted towards you who themselves will be doing the same e.g. posers, pretenders, materialistic and fake people.
Braggarts can never be trusted and having close relationships with such people can always be dangerous and harmful. It is because these type of people are immature mentally and self centered. They cannot give what a successful relationship needs.
On the other hand; a nice, honest person will be your friend better if you let your heart, nature and soul to shine through. So the best advice is to leave the armamentarium that you purchase to impress someone.
Furthermore if today they can be impressed by you, tomorrow someone else may win them over by getting more expensive items. So the important question that we must ask our selves that amongst all of our dear things, over which we spend considerable portion of life, energy and money and how many things amongst those are going to last long?
We must cut off time, energy and hard earned money on perishable things and start investing it into something that is really useful and beneficial.
Written By Dr. Muhammad Wasif Haq, Islamabad, Pakistan.
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